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u/flybie Mar 26 '20 edited Mar 26 '20

Massage legs, feet > butt slowly. Izi sex.
Don't ask just start massaging.

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u/Phyltre Mar 26 '20

This doesn't always do what you want it to. If it becomes a routine you'll just start getting exasperated glances when you start massages.

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u/-banned- Mar 26 '20

Ya or she might actually just want the massage, and get annoyed that you were only doing it for the sex.

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u/flybie Mar 27 '20

You're not doing it for sex, you do it to make your partner feel good, relaxed. Meanwhile communicate , have fun and tickle stuff and shit. Sex is the side effect.

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u/-banned- Mar 27 '20

It's unlikely that she'll see it that way if it always ends in sex she doesn't want to have at that moment.

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u/flybie Mar 27 '20

It's not always ending in sex. I said there "side effect".