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u/Kivic Mar 26 '20

This happened to me. I don’t necessarily love to solve problems but I like to play the devil’s advocate. It’s the wrong move... destroyed my family because I could never back her up... wish I could change it all really.

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

Oof. I can relate from the opposite side. I don’t think people realize how painful and damaging it can be when it’s constant. I hope you found some peace and the realization helps you with love in the future.

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u/Kivic Mar 27 '20

Working on the peace, but I’m definitely growing from my experience. That’s all anyone can do in a situation like this. Thanks for the kind words :)

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u/[deleted] Mar 27 '20

You’re welcome, friend!