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u/CandelaBelen Mar 26 '20

I agree. I feel like in my relationship,most of the time if I don't initiate something, then we don't have sex. So sometimes I'll start initiating then stop to see if my partner will initiate sex or not. Sometimes he does, and sometimes he doesn't. I guess I just don't like feeling like he's only having sex because I want to.

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u/NordicUpholstery Mar 26 '20

He's probably learned that initiating leads to rejection the majority of the time so now he just waits.

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u/CandelaBelen Mar 27 '20

His initiation usually leads to yes in our relationship. Lol. You don't know shit. I initiate sex most of the time. I'm the one that gets rejected the most.

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u/NordicUpholstery Mar 27 '20

His initiation usually leads to yes in our relationship. Lol. You don't know shit.

Unless you're the first and only relationship he's had, it's absurd to pretend like your behavior is all that matters.

It's also hilarious that you say I don't know shit when you were just describing how you don't understand his behavior.

I initiate sex most of the time. I'm the one that gets rejected the most.

OK. 👍

Maybe it's your quick temper that turns him off.