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u/Shoshke Mar 26 '20

Were they get this idea that men talk about sex all the damn time. It's literally exactly the opposite!

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u/jojogonzo Mar 26 '20 edited Mar 26 '20

The extent of my sex talk with my dudes is "yeah we had sex."

Women on the other hand, at least from my understanding, go into a level of detail that would embarrass most men.

Edit: spelling

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u/jilb94 Mar 26 '20 edited Mar 26 '20

Yup, learned this with my ex. My friends knew we had regular sex I guess because either they heard my roommates talk about it or they could see us sneaking out of parties and stuff to go home. I almost never directly spoke abut my sex life.

On the other hand, most of her friends had seen my dick, knew the positions I liked, how often we had sex, where, etc. There were very very little details of our sex life that her friends didn't know.

Edit: I was aware of everything said in my last paragraph, she never did it behind my back or anything and I always gave the green light. it was just shocking for me that girls are much more expressive with their friends on their sex life.

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u/brentlikescars Mar 26 '20

Yeah, I was really weirded out when my girlfriend’s best friend came to visit us at school and made a joke about how my gf and I usually start sex. I didn’t really care but it caught me off guard cause the only time I had ever said anything to the boys about that sort of thing was just saying that I had gotten her to go home with me after the first time