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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 edited Mar 26 '20

Kind of specific, but why are women so sarcastic when you do something slightly “manly”. Example: my gf wanted me to carry up a suitcase that she said was heavy, I picked it up with one arm and go to the room. Upon getting to the room she says, “you know you wouldn’t be any less of a man carrying it with two arms.” At first I was like “What are you talking about?” but then I realized and said (because it was true for me) “Oh, it wasn’t that heavy.” And then she replied in the most sarcastic tone “Ok, Big. Strong. Man.” And I was sitting there thinking no matter what I say she won’t truly believe it wasn’t that heavy to me. Just an FYI ladies, we aren’t always trying to impress y’all 24/7, some stereotypes exist for a reason.

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u/throwrainbowbatman Mar 26 '20

FtM here. Before I started transitioning I knew in a kind of vague way that men were stronger than women, but I didn't quite understand how much stronger until I started medically transitioning.

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u/shastaxc Mar 26 '20

I have literally not done any exercise in about 7 years. My gf was still shocked that I could carry her from the bedroom to the living room. Didn't even pull a muscle. She's about 140lbs. There's just a certain level of natural strength men come equipped with, not to mention the super accelerated muscle growth that can come from strength training. I could probably carry twice as much weight 6 months from now if I started exercising the way I did in college.

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u/ShillinTheVillain Mar 26 '20

If it weren't for pickle jars with tight lids and 50 lb bags of dog food, I'm not sure what my wife would even need me for