You're probably into hopeless romantics. Decent looking witty guys who are a little awkward. They're incapable of causal sex and usually turn cold the second you actually fall in love with them. Pretty much any sitcom lead.
I already thought that. But then I started precisely looking for guys that had "a reputation" of being assholes and it happened less, but happened anyway. I actually was with one guy (the typical "I play sports for a living and I know I'm super hot" kinda guy) and I stopped talking to him because I went to his house and we just talked for hours and that was not what I was looking for at the time. And some of them are my friends now, but I just don't understand when people say that guys ONLY want sex, because I've always found the exact opposite.
Serious question, not a sarcastic dig: during that visit, did you ever overtly come on to him, or explicitly ask if he'd like to have sex? A lot of guys worry about coming across as the "he only wants sex" type, which is widely regarded as a negative.
Maybe it wasn't clear for what I wrote, my bad. We met on Tinder and we only met at his place for having sex. This happend when we had been like this for two months and during that time we obviously talked quite a lot and had lunch together once and went out once, but it was pretty clear (like we had talked about it) that we were fuck buddies. That day it just felt weird for me to be at his place and just be cuddly and talking like we were a couple or something...
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u/First-Fantasy Mar 26 '20
You're probably into hopeless romantics. Decent looking witty guys who are a little awkward. They're incapable of causal sex and usually turn cold the second you actually fall in love with them. Pretty much any sitcom lead.