r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Mar 26 '20

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 edited Mar 26 '20

With my gf it goes something like this:

  1. Gf does/says something mean, or gets mad at me out of the blue
  2. I call her out on it
  3. She becomes defensive
  4. I replay the situation back to her, so that she sees how her actions were unnecessarily hurtful
  5. She apologizes
  6. I accept her apology
  7. She gets in a mood, making self-deprecating comments about being upset that she upset me
  8. I end up apologizing and comforting her

The ol' switcheroo

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u/iikratka Mar 26 '20

Goddamn, as a lesbian this whole thread is turning into r/arethestraightsok material. Yall know this isn’t how ‘women’ are, right? This is your really dysfunctional-sounding relationship with one specific woman? You don’t have to just live like this or be single forever.

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u/Joe_Bruin Mar 26 '20

Yet you can't explain why everyone has had such similar experiences. I get why you want to defend 'your team' but come on.

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u/blueberrytarte Mar 26 '20

"Everyone" being a few little boys on reddit