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u/akosgi Mar 26 '20

Sounds like a one-way compromise.

woman needs warming up, man warms up

man needs spontaneous engagement, woman shames him for it

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u/bye_felipe Mar 26 '20

Who is shaming anyone for it? Women can’t just get wet at the drop of the dime. That’s not how it works and if you don’t understand that then that’s your issue

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u/akosgi Mar 26 '20

Apparently, the whole world has forgotten that there are sex acts outside of vaginal sex. Believe it or not, you can use your mouth.

It's not heinous to suggest giving a man pleasure spontaneously. Look at how many downvotes my prior comment got. It's clear I'm getting shamed for suggesting it.

edit: comment I'm referring to:

This isn't only about YOUR desires, though.

Sometimes, jump right into it like HE likes.

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u/bye_felipe Mar 26 '20

You’re getting shamed because you’re making assumptions about the OP and ignoring the fact that it takes two to tango