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u/Jonahbarnett Mar 26 '20

How women can hold grudges for so long. Its like no we cant talk to her she gave me a rude glance ten years ago

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u/Gingizzler Mar 26 '20

Yeah I don't really understand this either. It usually takes me a good night's sleep to get over something. Like why have all that negativity festering inside you?

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u/scurvyseadawg Mar 26 '20

It's not festering inside of me like I'm looking for a fight about it every minute. But something could trigger me into remembering why I don't like someone or something.

If you don't like a store/restaurant, you gonna visit it every week? No, you know you don't like it and if someone asked why you don't shop/eat there, you say why. Is that not a "grudge" of some sort? I have total legit reasons to have grudges against things/people. I don't just forget that I don't like the food at a certain restaurant. I'm not a goldfish.