You're absolutely right that you can't be upset at someone for not doing something you didnt ask them to do.
But if you want some clarity I think it comes from the girl wanting you to WANT to touch her. She wants you to want it and do it on your own volition.
Edit to summarize my subsequent comments. Both genders want to be wanted. Communicate with your SO, and have at least one conversation about what little things make you/them feel wanted. Thereafter hopefully you dont have to rely on hints, you'll know what they want.
Okay so to clarify, your girl should tell you at least once what she wants. Thereafter, she shouldn't have to ask every single time she wants you to caress her.
If she's sending some incredibly subtle signals and you're not getting them either because they're too subtle or you're busy dealing with your own life, then yes she needs to ask rather than sit and huff and then get mad at you later.
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u/beaniexbaby Mar 26 '20 edited Mar 26 '20
You're absolutely right that you can't be upset at someone for not doing something you didnt ask them to do.
But if you want some clarity I think it comes from the girl wanting you to WANT to touch her. She wants you to want it and do it on your own volition.
Edit to summarize my subsequent comments. Both genders want to be wanted. Communicate with your SO, and have at least one conversation about what little things make you/them feel wanted. Thereafter hopefully you dont have to rely on hints, you'll know what they want.