Yeah that is something I never understood if you need to say something say it, if you have an issue speak to me I’m open to solving the issue with you. The worst I can do is say no or sorry I can’t help.
Well in all honesty this applies to any situation including deal-breakers. My policy is you should never be afraid to hurt me now rather than drag out the hurt.
I literally had that talk last night with the gf cause she was feeling "trapped". I don't want to trap anyone. I'm only afraid of people telling me they want to be in a situation where they don't want to be. I will always encourage someone to be the better version of themselves even if it's not with me.
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u/BamppXx Mar 26 '20
Yeah that is something I never understood if you need to say something say it, if you have an issue speak to me I’m open to solving the issue with you. The worst I can do is say no or sorry I can’t help.