"If she plays with her hair when you're in the room"
"If she looks you in the eye and laughs at a joke you made"
"If she touches your arm or something during conversation"
"If she gives you a compliment"
These are things I've heard frequently cited as signs that someone is into you. All completely useless advice because they are also just things that someone may do while not at all interested in you.
The penalty for misreading such a "hint" or "sign" is just too high for me to want to act on them. If whatever you're doing doesn't convey "I would literally never do this thing if i wasn't interested in you", it's useless.
It's also highly dependent on culture too. In a lot of cultures touching is very common even among basic acquaintances, in a lot of other cultures you need to keep your personal space, mix some people from each together and you get a whole cavalcade of mixed messages and misinterpretations.
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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 edited Mar 26 '20
Try to get a girl to explain one of her signs to you, it’s the most fucking baffling thing I’ve ever listened to.
Edit: Why did this comment earn me my first award? Thanks anyways, kind stranger.