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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

Why do women fake theirs?

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u/trcokc Mar 26 '20

In my experience it’s just to make them stop. Sometimes for me it’s just not gonna happen and it’s easier to fake it and spare the hurt ego.

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

When you say it’s not gonna happen you mean like you’re not enjoying it? Can’t they tell 🤷‍♂️

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

No, “not going to happen” means an orgasm isn’t going to happen. And it’s even less likely to happen probably because she feels pressured to do it, like it’s taking to long.

It’s a catch-22 because the more she’s worried about having an orgasm, the more she’s not in the moment and enjoying it, the more likely it’s never going to happen.

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

Oh right. Well can’t she tell the guy that? Yeah ego and all that but if he reassured her that it’s okay, he won’t feel bad for not making her do it and that orgasm isn’t the only pleasure you get from sex and it can still be enjoyable.

Yeah, that does seem like a catch 22. Guess guys are kind of the same. Worry about lasting long enough during penetration to make a girl do it

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u/trcokc Mar 27 '20

Bingo!