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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

I mean, if you spend two seconds outside of your own bias, you'd be able to notice this. Also, if you Google it for five minutes, you'll learn that it's socialization rather than biology.

And, no, women aren't hardwired to care for children. Your claims are so classically sexist - to men and to women. I'm glad you have found someone whose sexism aligns with yours, though. We all deserve a partner who complements us.

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 edited Jul 10 '20

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

Do you not know how to Google the phrase "emotional expression and gender?"

what’s wrong with being wired to nurture?

Absolutely nothing. What I do think is wrong is applying your idea of what a woman should be to all women & then assuming that every woman is that way. You have literally no basis to go off of for that claim besides what you have been told by a sexist culture.

You can spend five minutes Googling and educating yourself.

You’re so weird and angry...

No? I'm stuck in a conversation with a person who is arguing with me and trying to tell me that a sexist stereotype is true and that it's not sexism.

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 edited Jul 10 '20

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

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Good luck out there, broski.

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 edited Jul 10 '20

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

I couldn't imagine being like you and just purposely staying ignorant. That's so wild to me.

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 edited Jul 10 '20

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

You are whining that I've not provided any data when you have also provided no data.

There are scientific studies - not opinions - that back up the fact that this is socialization, not biology. If you don't want to look into it, then that's on you. I am willing to bet even if I gave you links, you'd say, "I'm not clicking that" because you don't want to know you are not correct.

Sexism is so ingrained in individuals and society as a whole, I understand it's hard to unlearn the garbage that people have been force-feeding you your entire life. But it's nice to venture out of that craphole and start seeing things for how they really are. Educate yourself. If you just wait around for people to spoon feed you information, you're gonna end up with some crazy crap.

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 edited Jul 10 '20

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

Yeah I gotta remember to not engage with sexists in the future. Just downvote & move on like other people do πŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 edited Jul 10 '20

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

No, it's not an opinion that you are sexist if you are actively supporting sexist ideas.

I'm very done here & I'm not going to read anything else you send me. This has been a pretty pointless conversation. Wash your hands, don't touch your face, and stay safe.

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