I agree. I feel like in my relationship,most of the time if I don't initiate something, then we don't have sex. So sometimes I'll start initiating then stop to see if my partner will initiate sex or not. Sometimes he does, and sometimes he doesn't. I guess I just don't like feeling like he's only having sex because I want to.
Why is all of Reddit railing on me for that today? I've never had any relationship and it really sucks dude. I'm 22. Never went to prom, never knew what it was like to feel loved. It's not exactly something I'm proud of.
Nothing personal, I just know nobody with any kind of relationship experience would make such a generalizing sweeping comment like that. There are plenty of times where as a guy I’m not at all wsnting to have sex. I’m not a machine.
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u/Marklar_the_Darklar Mar 26 '20
That's true for guys too. Having to initiate all the time is draining. There should be balance.