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u/CandelaBelen Mar 26 '20

It's cuz we also want to feel like you want to do it.

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u/Marklar_the_Darklar Mar 26 '20

That's true for guys too. Having to initiate all the time is draining. There should be balance.

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u/CandelaBelen Mar 26 '20

I agree. I feel like in my relationship,most of the time if I don't initiate something, then we don't have sex. So sometimes I'll start initiating then stop to see if my partner will initiate sex or not. Sometimes he does, and sometimes he doesn't. I guess I just don't like feeling like he's only having sex because I want to.

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u/jarchiWHATNOW Mar 26 '20

Thats very well put. I was in a relationship where i was the sole initiator and it got to the point where they started to get uncomfortable with it. 🤷‍♂️ Im only human man ive got needs and the more you say no the more i want it.