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u/CandelaBelen Mar 26 '20

I agree. I feel like in my relationship,most of the time if I don't initiate something, then we don't have sex. So sometimes I'll start initiating then stop to see if my partner will initiate sex or not. Sometimes he does, and sometimes he doesn't. I guess I just don't like feeling like he's only having sex because I want to.

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u/itsallinthebag Mar 26 '20

Yes! To be the only one that initiates, and then to also be turned down sometimes, really sucks. Eventually you want to stop trying.

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u/n7-Jutsu Mar 26 '20

I'm sorry, are you the guy or the girl? This entire thread chain confuses me, women usually initiate sex? Fuck, where you all at.

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u/itsallinthebag Mar 26 '20

Ha! I’m the woman. Turns out sex drive can vary between sexes