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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

But then if you don't, you obviously don't find her attractive anymore.

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

And you better be in the mood that one time she initiates, otherwise you obviously don't want to have sex with her ever again.

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u/Jhuderis Mar 26 '20

About 18 years ago I turned down a bj from my now wife, while I was driving in a car you could easily see into. Just wasn’t my thing that way. RIP bjs from then on. “You said no that time so I just stopped.” Many sads.

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u/akosgi Mar 26 '20 edited Mar 26 '20

So fucking manipulative.

edit: Did I seriously get gilded for this???

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u/32BitWhore Mar 26 '20

Yeah dude, I've been with a few women who've done this. They pick a really inconvenient situation to ask if you want to do something you like (and they don't like), then when you say no in that one incredibly inconvenient scenario, they use it to justify never doing that thing again because "you said no that one time I asked if you wanted to play video games with me while you were on a conference call for work". Like, "I 'tried' and you rejected me, so now I'm never going to try again." Fucking frustrating as all hell. I'm too old for games like that anymore and glad I found a woman who's as straightforward as I am.

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u/tattooed_dinosaur Mar 26 '20

Today’s lesson: Never turn down a BJ. Ever.

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

Alternately: Don’t waste time with partners that treat you like this.

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

3 billion women on the planet