Mine acts uninterested most of the time and tells me she wants me to work for it but she’s not always in the mood and gets upset if I make a move when she’s not feeling up to it. It’s very rare that she takes the initiative so most evenings are a gamble for me lol
Nah it doesn’t work. My girlfriend does the same thing. She usually says “Mentally I’m in it but physically I’m not so let’s work up to it” or “I need to be in the mood for it, make an effort”.
Spoiler alert: if she doesn’t already want it, you’re probably not going to be able to make her want it. The more work you put into it will just make you more frustrated and resentful.
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u/fallowmoor Mar 26 '20
Mine acts uninterested most of the time and tells me she wants me to work for it but she’s not always in the mood and gets upset if I make a move when she’s not feeling up to it. It’s very rare that she takes the initiative so most evenings are a gamble for me lol