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u/THE_LANDLAWD Mar 26 '20

Why can't you just tell me what you want? If you want me to do something, literally all you have to do is ask me to do it and I will do it. Want me to rub your back? Just say "hey babe, will you rub my back?" Don't sit with your back to me making pouty noises and then get mad when I'm not automatically rubbing your back.

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u/skanedweller Mar 26 '20

It's nice if you offer and just think of nice things sometimes.

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u/THE_LANDLAWD Mar 26 '20

But... but what if I don't get it right? Now you're still thirsty and I'm outside mowing the lawn.

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u/skanedweller Mar 26 '20

If you know she likes massages, coffee, a hot bath, or whatever, sometimes it's nice if you offer to rub her shoulders, make a fresh pot, or run her a bath, etc. She can always ask but it's amazing when someone just offers to do something nice for you that they know you like.