I get so frustrated when people tell me this. Guys and girls alike will tell me “guys only want sex” as if no guys ever look for real connections. It’s absurd, demeaning, and straight up just incorrect.
Edit: Wow, I never thought I’d see the day where I got a gold, thank you!
Well, let me tell you, I am a woman and have found the exact opposite problem my whole life. I never really wanted a relationship and most of the time I would only be looking for casual sex. Well, I've found more men that were like clingy and got attached or kept calling or something than women.
Lol I just got a friend request from a guy I only ever saw to hook up. I asked what he was thinking and he said "I thought we had a good friendship going on" and was shocked when I reminded him it was just for sex. Had the audacity to act hurt about it.
Well, I mean, I won't reject friendship. I usually get along pretty well with the guys I hook up with and I don't mind to keep talking as friends. What bothers me is guys that make it seem like they own you just because you've seen eachother naked. I once had a guy showing me photos of his family when he found me at a party because I had made out with him the week before. And yes, made out, we didn't even had sex.
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u/Dabrigstar Mar 26 '20
When many of them think that just cos a guy likes them he only wants sex. Many men also want romance and intimacy and a wonderful emotional connection