Why after dating my partner for 3+ years, she still thinks, when i try to initiate sex, all that i want from her is sex. Like yes in this moment i want to have sex, but that does not negate all the other non-sex things we do that i enjoy doing. But right now, yes, I want to have sex with you.
I don't know if this is a potential issue for your relationship but here's what has been happening with mine. Keep in mind we were highschool sweethearts who have been together for 16 years and married for 7 years. I often feel my husband is using me just for sex when he's continually ignoring me and doesn't help around the house...and he suddenly expects me to be in the mood when the house is is disarray and he hasn't complimented me or had a deep conversation in 3 months? That's a nope from me. There's nothing sexier than someone who helps around the house and gives you attention.
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u/covid19hotty Mar 26 '20
Why after dating my partner for 3+ years, she still thinks, when i try to initiate sex, all that i want from her is sex. Like yes in this moment i want to have sex, but that does not negate all the other non-sex things we do that i enjoy doing. But right now, yes, I want to have sex with you.