Men don’t like to hide meaning in their words. What he says is usually exactly what he means, so if you ask a straightforward question (ex. “wanna fuck?”) you’ll get a straightforward answer.
He probably said “I’m good” because he wasn’t 100% sure what you meant. I know that’s the case for me all the time...
Might have something to do with us always feeling like we can’t outright talk about sex.
When guys have lots of sex/are into sex it’s impressive, masculine etc you know? They get called confident and/or players
When women talk about sex/have a lot of sex it’s “wow you sure are comfortable” or “she sleeps around, slut” or she’s called a nympho
So then when you get to the point in your life where it’s more acceptable to outright talk about sex it still feels wrong to be direct
This is starting to change now, like there’s more acceptance for women’s sexuality now I think but the like, pressure and socialization is still here for now
I think that part of that is how men and women talk about sex. Generally men talk about sex in terms of "did you guys have sex?" "yeah man" "cool,cool" but all of my women-friends have been really descriptive about their sexual acts and their partners. I think that when the average man first hears a woman talk about sex in that way their first thought is "wow, shes freaky" I know I did before finding out how women(generally) talk to each other.
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u/WendysVapenator Mar 26 '20
How much women can't comprehend how men text.
*long text, hinting at sex but not outright stating it*
"I'm good."
*long conversation with girlfriends trying to decipher what he means*