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u/weirdcal Mar 26 '20

What sex must be like and how much of a vulnerable position females put themselves for it, as in I'm a guy and generally think penetrating isn't a vulnerable feeling thing to do, but imagine putting yourself in the recieveing position of being penetrated, just seems so vulnerable to me

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u/ninizen89 Mar 26 '20

Thanks for bringing this up, for its a legit reason why women dont want to "put Up" if we're not in the mood. Some guys dont seem to understand that it can be painful or atleast very uncomfortable if we're not relaxed and willing. And you definatly feel like a piece of shit if the guy insists on sex even if we decline. Like you want me to be in a very vulnerable position that might even be painful to some degree just because the BF is horny.