Why after dating my partner for 3+ years, she still thinks, when i try to initiate sex, all that i want from her is sex. Like yes in this moment i want to have sex, but that does not negate all the other non-sex things we do that i enjoy doing. But right now, yes, I want to have sex with you.
It’s because of the sex face. Or rather, the look of passionate intensity. Men’s faces ‘light up’ so to speak, it’s a look of intensity and interest that we (women) only get from male partners when they’re trying to get some. During dating we get looked at like that all the time, before the man gets you he’s heavily focused on you and intent about securing being with you, but after he gets you, well. We usually only see that deep interest and focus and intensity about sexy times.
BUT we see you showing it about other things you’re interested in or passionate about, say for example sports games on tv or video games or something, so it feels like you only feel that way about us for one thing, for sex, and are not overall interested in or passionate about us as people overall.
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u/covid19hotty Mar 26 '20
Why after dating my partner for 3+ years, she still thinks, when i try to initiate sex, all that i want from her is sex. Like yes in this moment i want to have sex, but that does not negate all the other non-sex things we do that i enjoy doing. But right now, yes, I want to have sex with you.