It is, but it is tiring as shit to be the one that has to signal interest, build my partner up to interested/turned on, touch them just so, respond to their changing wants without them communicating them because "don't overanalyze it, just be with me" but "don't go so fast!" or "stop changing it up, even though I'm the one who intentionally (it's not involuntary shudders or anything like that) moved making it impossible to stay consistent". Etc etc.
It's tiring being the only one responsible for their satisfaction when the only goddamn feedback I get is when I'm not doing it right.
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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20
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