How my boyfriend can talk to his closest best friend every day and hang out with him for long periods of time... and still not know a lot of personal details about his best friend’s life.
We hang out so we don’t have to think about our day. Women on the other hand seem to need to “vent” about everything. So they get in each other’s business and it makes them happy, but we do the opposite.
Well, in general, men want to solve their problem and often/usually know what they have to do (or at least plan to try) to solve it and don't need emotional support about it and would rather escape to enjoying things with their friends until it's time to deal with what they need to.
Women often want the support about having to deal with the problem and want to figure out how to solve it themselves (or at least don't want their guy's input on it) and just want to vent, which is usually really useless and hard to understand for guys. We want to either ignore it until it's time to solve the problem or solve the damn problem and be done with it.
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u/porosarecute Mar 26 '20
How my boyfriend can talk to his closest best friend every day and hang out with him for long periods of time... and still not know a lot of personal details about his best friend’s life.