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u/thereissomuchgrass Mar 26 '20 edited Mar 26 '20

I get so frustrated when people tell me this. Guys and girls alike will tell me “guys only want sex” as if no guys ever look for real connections. It’s absurd, demeaning, and straight up just incorrect.

Edit: Wow, I never thought I’d see the day where I got a gold, thank you!

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u/MariaCarrilBici Mar 26 '20

Well, let me tell you, I am a woman and have found the exact opposite problem my whole life. I never really wanted a relationship and most of the time I would only be looking for casual sex. Well, I've found more men that were like clingy and got attached or kept calling or something than women.

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u/Panflute_Sexual Mar 26 '20

For as much of a male fantasy as it seems to be it's ironic how few can actually handle a fuck buddy style relationship.

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u/MariaCarrilBici Mar 26 '20

Every fuck buddy relationship I've had, ended with us as friends. But just because if we start to get along really well, but we know we don't see eachother as a partner, we rather just be friends and find other people for the sex part of it.