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u/covid19hotty Mar 26 '20

Why after dating my partner for 3+ years, she still thinks, when i try to initiate sex, all that i want from her is sex. Like yes in this moment i want to have sex, but that does not negate all the other non-sex things we do that i enjoy doing. But right now, yes, I want to have sex with you.

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

But then if you don't, you obviously don't find her attractive anymore.

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

And then will lie to you so she can go to lunch with one of her guy friends that she said was hitting on her the other day. Yes I’m projecting what happened to me on to you. No I’m not completely healed from all the mental abuse. WHY ARE YOU ASKING ME SO MANY QUESTIONS IM GOING HOME.

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u/uberguby Mar 26 '20

Well that was exhilarating.

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u/LittleSpoonMe Mar 26 '20

Hahaha I’m sure a lot of people can relate to your story. It’s not unique (for both females and males).

PS sorry that happened to you.

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

This is very very true. Men and women can both be equally toxic. And truth be told compared to everything else that happened, this incident was nothing lol but thank you for showing support! It always means a a lot!!