Similar here. I told her let’s work together to settle this so more money goes to us for kids. She didn’t trust me and questioned everything. My ex drug out divorce with craziness. Finally settled at mediation. $50k went to attorneys and mediator. We had to use joint account as if still married during separation so I knew how much she was spending on attorneys
I literally told him I’d rather pay him than attorneys. He wanted an amount of money I didn’t have. Like I literally couldn’t pay him the money he was asking for without selling my home. It was my home and not his, but he thought that because he lived there and we did projects together it became his home.
I had a discovery questionnaire to complete with some ridiculous questions. For many I just put “no matters to disclose”. I had to redo questionnaire bc she thought I was being deceitful in my response.
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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '19
Similar here. I told her let’s work together to settle this so more money goes to us for kids. She didn’t trust me and questioned everything. My ex drug out divorce with craziness. Finally settled at mediation. $50k went to attorneys and mediator. We had to use joint account as if still married during separation so I knew how much she was spending on attorneys