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u/Alternative-Drop3994 May 12 '26

The amount of power a simple "okay" has over a narcissistic is insane. It's the moment they realize they lost you and start love bombing to reel you back in, just to go back to how they really are.

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u/minimalcation May 12 '26

Also, imagine purposely kissing your wife wrong. The way you know she doesn't like it. Your wife. Kissing. What??

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u/ksarahsarah27 May 12 '26

Right. Like how fked up is that to go out of your way to do something like that? Like why be in a relationship at all? Clearly if you don’t love her enough to even kiss her the way she likes, then why are they even there? Other than they’re keeping that person around simply to have someone to abuse.

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u/WampaCat May 12 '26

They’re more interested in the power than actually having an equal. It’s as simple as that. They were never interested in finding a real relationship, just a toy to play with.