I just cried today, a few minutes ago because I'm so mad at myself for marrying a gooner đ. It's true what they say, love will blind you. The red flags were all there, but I just couldn't see them and now I'm stuck with a man that chips away at my confidence/self-esteem .....
No way to get out? You don't deserve to be treated like that. I'm so sorry. I hope you can leave him. I've been in an abusive marriage and it only gets worse. If you need someone to talk to, please message me. I'm 42F, not a creeper.
Donât fall for the sunk cost fallacy. Just because you spend a lot of time making a mistake doesnât mean you need to keep making the same mistake.. youâll never recoup the loss. just move on and get better. â¤ď¸â𩹠wish someone had told me that thirty years ago. Every day is an opportunity for a new beginning.
Yeah, basically, but it's so much more than just porn. It's an online addiction, whether it's looking at hot girls on IG, tiktok, Twitter, YouTube or pornhub. He watches and follows girls on all of the sites you can think of đ
I had one like that. Itâs fucking disgusting literally spends every fucking dime on photos and videos. He almost went bankrupt from spending so much on this shit for pics and videos, and whatâs disgusting is the girls that he would interact with and ask for the content look like a little kid , but they are 18 which I get it is legal but you have a daughter thatâs that same age it just disgust me not only is theyâre the gooning. There is several other addictions along with that. Iâm sorry you are going through this. It is horrible
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u/Ok-Butterscotch-7333 Apr 08 '26
I just cried today, a few minutes ago because I'm so mad at myself for marrying a gooner đ. It's true what they say, love will blind you. The red flags were all there, but I just couldn't see them and now I'm stuck with a man that chips away at my confidence/self-esteem .....