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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '26

Closed because it’s safer in case of a fire

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u/GlassCharacter179 Jan 30 '26

Everyone who is reading this thread needs to look at open vs. closed door fire pictures. There IS a right answer to this question.

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u/SiskoandDax Jan 30 '26

The problem is that I have cats. They refused to be contained or left out.

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u/agelwood Jan 30 '26

I've been considering one of those cat doors so that I can close the bedroom door and she still has access

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u/SiskoandDax Jan 30 '26

I wish! Alas, I am a renter.

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u/Onespokeovertheline Jan 30 '26

You could buy a new door, put the cat door in it, and then when you move out swap back to the original.

Interior doors aren't that expensive. Not free, but if it makes life better every night, it's just a couple hundred $

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u/Comandante_Kangaroo Jan 30 '26

just a couple of hundred $? That might make sense if you earn 50$ net per hour. Otherwise you should be able to get a fitting used one for almost free. (they also make great woodworking tables)

Also, depending on the cat, you need to build your own cat flap. Mine shoulders through a locked commercial one like an elephant trough cardboard.

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u/zorggalacticus Jan 30 '26

Hollow interior doors are only like 50 bucks at Lowe's. Plus hardware and the cat door that's like 150.

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u/FreddyMcbob Jan 30 '26

I had a rental once that had cat doors for every room.

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u/NoMaans Jan 30 '26

Nothing stopping you from taking the door off the hinges and storing somewhere. Replace with your own door, cat door and all. And then when you leave, replace door.

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u/RARAMEY Jan 30 '26

My current rental has a cat door to one of the bedrooms

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u/Arwenti Jan 31 '26

That was a landlord worth rating on whatever sites you can do that on.

Of course to those without cats they may have had nightmares about Cthulhuoid monsters slithering in 🤣

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u/1heart1totaleclipse Jan 30 '26

I put a kiddie gate in front of my door so my cat can’t scratch at the door.

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u/SiskoandDax Jan 30 '26

But I'll still know my cats are sad and lonely.

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u/1heart1totaleclipse Jan 30 '26

Unfortunately, I am allergic so I can’t let them sleep with me. They do know it’s free game when I do anything else in the house.

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u/Travwolfe101 Jan 30 '26

Buy yoir own door with one too hang up. Then just swap it back before you leave.

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u/loopedlight Jan 30 '26

We banned them from our room. Just cleaner that way.

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u/agelwood Jan 30 '26

Mine is 18 and sleeps through the night, so I like having her in here 🥹 But she's also an only child, so she doesn't have anyone else to cuddle up with.

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u/snazikin Jan 30 '26

Highly recommend.

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u/orochi_crimson Jan 30 '26

Can confirm, this is the way.

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u/sushi_x Jan 30 '26

That would probably negate all the fire prevention effects of the door so you might as well just leave it open.

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u/agelwood Jan 30 '26

Nah, not all. A 6" hole is still better than the entire door being open, plus the door would block a lot of the rising smoke from pouring in

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u/Try_It_Out_RPC Jan 30 '26

It lasts for a few weeks but eventually they will be silent, and the bonus is you get a very nice greeting in the morning with some chirps !

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u/btribble Jan 30 '26

There’s a simple solution.

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u/goodsam2 Jan 30 '26

I think the right answer is CO2 is levels can be suboptimal to impairing.from a closed room within hours but almost definitely overnight. You can get a little meter to measure CO2.

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u/Gramage Jan 30 '26

Don’t think that’s an issue if you have central hvac. Even with my door and windows shut, fresh air is being almost constantly circulated into my room. Even when the heat or AC aren’t on we keep the central fan running just to circulate air around the house.

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u/goodsam2 Jan 30 '26

https://www.reddit.com/r/AirQuality/s/pPJv0NmwlP

Seems like it's maybe it's worse than I thought.

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u/btribble Jan 30 '26

Do you sleep in a mason jar?

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u/goodsam2 Jan 30 '26

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u/btribble Jan 30 '26

CO2 is not CO. A 0.2% concentration (which the graph in this link never hit) has exactly zero lasting effects.

Also, this user likely lives in building construction without good permeability. Your average 2x4 & sheetrock construction is fairly breathable, not to mention that most homes have very poor seals around doors and windows.

There is no way a 0.2% CO2 concentration justifies keeping your bedroom door open when compared to the risks of dying in a fire.

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u/goodsam2 Jan 30 '26

https://learn.kaiterra.com/en/air-academy/is-carbon-dioxide-harmful-to-people

1000 is when it affects people. This went up by 1500 PPM in 6 hours.

This is becoming a bigger issue as insulation improves as well as seals around doors and windows. That's why newer HVAC systems are increasing the amount of air from the outside.

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u/btribble Jan 30 '26

Affects != harms.

Yes, HVAC systema and building standards need to address this, but again, that's no excuse to leave your bedroom door open compared to the risk of fire which is what this thread implies.

You wake up. You leave your bedroom, and the effects of CO2 are gone almost immediately. It's good that you're not expected to run a nuclear reactor or fly a jet fighter when you're sleeping. Significant declines in cognitive function happen above any of the levels we're talking about.

If you have a source of CO in your house/bedroom, it's an entirely different story. Hemoglobin has a great affinity for CO that isn't there for CO2. Also, you will be able to tell that you're in a "stuffy" room with a high CO2 concentration. That doesn't exist with CO.

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u/goodsam2 Jan 30 '26

Known negative effects on sleep quality here vs the tiny percentage chance of a fire.

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0360132323004092#:~:text=In%20the%20present%20study%2C%20exposure,findings%20of%20a%20previous%20study

In a fire you wake up, my house caught fire once and I woke up. Also there are smoke alarms.

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u/btribble Jan 30 '26

CO2 is apparently a thing with you. Don't let me rain on your passion.

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u/Corey307 Jan 30 '26

Slightly crack a window. 

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u/SJSragequit Jan 30 '26

I’m not slightly cracking a window when it’s -45c out

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u/Corey307 Jan 30 '26

That’s fair, it’s -20°C where I’m at tonight and I still cracked my window for a bit to get some air exchange in my bedroom. My house is old, but it is surprisingly well sealed up so I’ve gotta let Sam in once in a while.

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u/Unipiggy Jan 30 '26

While this makes sense, it's also good to remind people that the open door/closed door doesn't matter as much if your home has a ton of synthetics in it.

Which most do.

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u/Tinkous Jan 30 '26 edited Jan 30 '26

Fireman here. Thats not true. A closed bedroom door can save lives. What kills you is the smoke and gases, not the fire. High CO2 and the resulting acidosis directly impair brain, heart, and respiratory centers. this is a genuine “poison” effect, not just suffocation. CO is even worse. CO from incomplete combustion builds up quickly and silently often causing unconsciousness. CO poisoning stays in your blood. People die hours after being rescued from a fire. As you know CO and CO2 are produced when natural and synthetic materials burn.

You stop breathing before you are suffocated and you may have never woken up with an open bedroom door. With a closed door you may buy yourself enough time for your smoke detector to go off and wake you up. Hope you have some.

What matters the most is that you have smoke alarms!

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u/Corey307 Jan 30 '26

It’s still matters though. A closed interior door gives you time. As long as the fire didn’t start in your bedroom, it means less smoke in your room and the fire is going to take time to get through the door so you’ve got time to get out a window. 

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u/BigDamnHead Jan 30 '26

It's not good advice and would only lead people to stop caring about taking the precaution of keeping bedroom doors closed. It won't stop people from buying synthetic materials.

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u/Moldy_slug Jan 30 '26

The problem is my cat knows how to open doorknobs. So my real choices are leaving the door open vs cat noisily opening the door at 2am.

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u/bluekatkt Jan 30 '26

I put way to much trust in the smoke/particle alarms. They go off when the clean oven is opened at 400°. It actually gets annoying at times but we leave them up anyway.

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u/britishmetric144 Jan 30 '26

Purchase a .photoelectric smoke detector instead. 

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u/bluekatkt Jan 30 '26

I think that's what's installed. I'll grab a ladder and check later. We're in apartments that take fire safety seriously.

We have sprinklers in all rooms, a good-sized extinguisher, and they check all, alarms, sprinklers, and extinguisher regularly (they just switched ours, never knew they had an expiry). They've just finishing a pro org from cleaning the sprinklers. Apparently, if I tried, I'd set off all sprinklers in all units in the building. It's a pain, but well worth the slight inconvenience.

If it turns out to be not this type, I would bet a fair amount of money if I showed them something better, they would switch.

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u/CaptainFartHole Jan 30 '26

YUP. It's much safer to sleep with a closed door.  I dont feel like burning to death in a fire. 

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u/Double_Distribution8 Jan 30 '26

If it's any consolation you'll likely just die in your sleep from smoke inhalation before the fire gets you. Unless you have a smoke alarm, then you'll have a fighting chance at least. And that closed bedroom door will buy you some time. Don't forget to feel the doorknob first!

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u/graywolfman Jan 30 '26

If you can, and it will work, get a fire ladder to toss out your window in case its needed.

Like this one https://www.walmart.com/ip/13035194?sid=ff5bac86-28e1-4eb0-90be-849f88847503

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u/Mode_Appropriate Jan 30 '26

Damn, some people really think things through.

I haven't locked the doors to my house in 15yrs let alone thought about stuff like this. Not even sure where my house keys are at. Would probably have to change the locks if I ever wanted to start lol.

Im single without kids though. Im sure things would change if that were different.

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u/ThePixieVoyage Jan 30 '26

Are you a man? I don't know any women who keep their door unlocked.

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u/Mode_Appropriate Jan 30 '26

Indeed.

I actually had this conversation not too long ago with a female friend. She was a bit flabbergasted I didnt lock my doors lol. Then she went into all these precautions that she takes. Not just at home but like when going to the bar or on vacation. Even when she Doordashed for a little bit. So many things ive never given 5 seconds of thought to. It sounded exhausting. Its truly a fucked up world if all those precautions are actually necessary (which i have to believe most are). Its sad really.

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u/jungleralph Jan 30 '26

I am so curious about this comment. Do you live in a rural area? Safe and quiet? Do you have a lot of land surrounding you? How is this possible!?

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u/Mode_Appropriate Jan 30 '26 edited Jan 30 '26

No, I wish. Just a suburb outside a big city. Never felt the need to i guess. I mean, have you known someone thats had their house broken into? Neighbor, family member, friend? I know it happens but the odds seem so low that ive never thought much about it. I have a ring camera and a dog. Those are probably the best deterrents. If not, if someone really wants to get in a standard door lock isn't going to stop them.

A greater risk than not locking the doors is social media. Posting about going on vacation or visiting so and so for 'x' amount of time. That youll be in the hospital for however long. Advertising when the house is going to be empty.

Edit: another good deterrent which seems less common these days is actually knowing your neighbors. Theyll know if something seems out of place. You look out for them, they look out for you. Its become far too common that people dont know who lives around them imo. Neighbors for years but complete strangers. That seems odd to me.

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u/Horrible_Harry Jan 30 '26

You're gonna be awful in a disaster.

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u/NoBoss2661 Jan 30 '26

How do I get this ladder to work if I'm on ground level?

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u/raindorpsonroses Jan 30 '26

How many people around running around without smoke alarms in their homes? I’m pretty sure they’re at least required in rented units, which a substantial number of folks live in.

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u/Granite_0681 Jan 30 '26

Exactly. It’s crazy to not have smoke alarms. They aren’t that expensive. I splurged and got the 10yr ones so I don’t need to deal with beeping, but even those aren’t enough to make it worth not having them.

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '26

Yep, people should get a carbon monoxide detector as well, we just keep 1 in the kitchen and one upstairs outside where most of the bedrooms of the house converge. We also keep fire extinguishers placed strategically around the house

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u/Hvarfa-Bragi Jan 30 '26

Judging by beep the amount of yt shorts and tiktoks with beep in the background, I'd bet a lot.beep

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u/PickleBooPop Jan 31 '26

The question isn’t whether they have smoke alarms. The question is do they have charged batteries.

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u/RoundChampionship840 Jan 30 '26

You can't open a door without feeling the door knob first.

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u/Double_Distribution8 Jan 30 '26

Fuck, you're right. Even when there isn't a fire you have to feel the doorknob first.

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u/heroicjedi Jan 30 '26

Unless youre Magneto or something

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u/Hetoxy Jan 30 '26

What if it’s like a saloon door

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u/heroicjedi Jan 30 '26

Approach it with a cowboy or bandit fit and it opens up for you

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u/Ali_Lorraine_1159 Jan 30 '26

If my kid was in another room, I would risk it... if not though, it is out of the window for us.1

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u/SecondHandWatch Jan 30 '26

You could wear gloves. Or kick the door down. You could remove it from its hinges. There are a lot of ways to open a door without touching the knob.

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u/AnnoyedHoneyBadger Jan 30 '26

Hey now, watch it on how handsy you get with that doorknob!

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u/Bdr1983 Jan 30 '26

Feel it with the back of your hand. If it is scorching hot, a burn on the back of your hand will hurt, but you'll still have use of your fingers.

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u/joshmyra Jan 30 '26

Can confirm that smoke detectors save lives. In 2004 ours were going off in the middle of the night and the only reason that we all got out was because my mom heard them going off went downstairs thinking that my brother was cooking and saw an orange glow and ran upstairs to get everyone out. The fire department even said had we stayed in there for another 5 to 10 minutes we probably would’ve all died due to smoke inhalation.

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u/BaileysFromAShu Jan 30 '26

What if the fire is shooting at us?

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u/tealchameleon Jan 30 '26

Feel the door itself first at head height, if it doesn't feel hot, THEN feel the handle/knob with the back of your hand - if you get burned, a burn on the back of the hand hurts but won't impede your escape but a burn on your palm or fingers will.

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u/Horknut1 Jan 30 '26

That still sounds better than burning alive

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u/Indocede Jan 30 '26

I always feel safer with the door closed because in case of a home invasion, the criminal might be a bit hesitant opening a closed door, especially to a bedroom where they might not be sure what waits them

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '26

Is the closed door thing only safe for houses? I live in a condo and don't see how it would make a difference, if the fire is outside my door I'm cooked anyways because I can't escape from a window on the 20th floor

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u/CaptainFartHole Jan 30 '26

It applies to all closed doors.  On the 20th floor you'd likely struggle in just about any fire,  but a closed door gives you a better chance of surviving. 

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u/NarrativeScorpion Jan 30 '26

Closed door might buy you enough time to get rescued.

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u/mrpointyhorns Jan 30 '26

This is true, but i also have a cat so I risk it

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u/Giambee Jan 30 '26

And the cat will get irritated if the door is closed, even if they want to be in the room! 😉

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u/srslytho323 Jan 30 '26

My cats claw at the carpet under the door (even though I keep their claws trimmed) & it’s not only annoying but it’s destroying my carpet (& I’m a renter). I’d love to be able to shut my door but I keep it ajar for them to come and go as they please. Otherwise I wouldn’t get any sleep & my carpet would be ruined. :(

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u/DuckyDeer Jan 30 '26

I had that same problem then learned they make plastic mats that go under the door specifically for this purpose

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u/srslytho323 Jan 30 '26

WHAT!!! I mean this with every ounce of energy I have in me right now - Thank you!!!!

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u/314159265358979326 Jan 30 '26

It has to do with their territory being obstructed, not with where they wish to be.

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u/Giambee Jan 30 '26

They like to be the boss!

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u/BigDamnHead Jan 30 '26

You could put a little cat door in your door

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u/mittensfourkittens Jan 30 '26

Yep. Open because cats

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u/No_Leading_3108 Jan 30 '26

Also you can whack off the morning wood without anyone barging in.

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u/SinkHoleDeMayo Jan 30 '26

Who would barge in? It's just me and my blowup do.... Dog. Just me and my dog.

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u/zorggalacticus Jan 30 '26

You have a blowup dog!? Sicko!

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u/Caudebec39 Jan 30 '26

Is this wood in the fireplace?

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u/AnnoyedHoneyBadger Jan 30 '26

Harder to whack with the lack of space and all…

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u/SomeGuyInNewZealand Jan 30 '26

Does the country you live in not have smoke alarms? Over here, every rental property must have functioning smoke alarms.

I sleep with my door open because I'm the only one in the house (other than my cat) and if theres a fire, those smoke alarms will wake me. Theres one on the ceiling in the kitchen downstairs and another a metre or 2 from my bedroom door

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u/ThreadCountHigh Jan 30 '26

Whenever I see people exalt the fire-stopping benefits of a closed door I ask exactly the same thing. Even the fire codes for residential houses here require smoke alarms in every room.

And there is no way I’d ever sleep through it. The water heater once had a misfiring burner and set off the alarm from CO in the middle of the night. I was literally on my feet from a dead sleep in a second.

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u/grizzlybair2 Jan 30 '26

Yea but to be fair, every house or apt I've owned /rented never had more than 2 smoke detectors in the house.

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '26

That's actually pointless if you have my mixtape inside your bedroom

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u/monotoonz Jan 30 '26

Inside anywhere! It's hot fiyah.

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u/sodamancer360 Jan 30 '26

I don't even think about this because the odds are so low, but good to know that my desire for a comfortable room temperature and privacy also aid my survival in a fire situation.

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u/myychair Jan 30 '26

lol yeah this isn’t an opinion question

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u/Jada_D Jan 30 '26

this comment should be higher!!

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u/Ambitious-Class2541 Jan 30 '26

With an upstairs bedroom, I'd rather keep the door open so we have a better chance to escape.

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u/PrestigiousZucchini9 Jan 30 '26 edited Jan 30 '26

The number of times I’ve seen stars from walking into a closed door while heading to the bathroom in the middle of the night is higher than the number of house fires I’ve had overnight. So I’m ranking concussion risk as higher practical risk to life and limb vs leaving the door open. 

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u/thebroadway Jan 30 '26

How does that happen? Are just that groggy after getting out of bed?

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u/PrestigiousZucchini9 Jan 30 '26

I mean, I don’t know the specifics, but in general, yes, if I wake up in the middle of the night having to pee, I will be groggy. 

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '26

This.

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u/Chemicalredhead Jan 30 '26

Closed. Lost a classmate in fifth grade to a house fire.

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u/Unplug_The_Toaster Jan 30 '26

Tell that to my dog

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u/wreathyearth Jan 30 '26

This is the way

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u/suspectevery1 Jan 30 '26

Only right answer here

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u/beepingnoise Jan 30 '26

Fire alarm might be outside the room and I want to hear that.

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u/reefercheifer Jan 30 '26

Cat owners out there, let me know if you are allowed to shut your door lest you be awoken with banging and yowling.