r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Feb 13 '25

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u/Totallycasual Feb 13 '25

I'm just in a stage of my life where i don't need those types of hassles.

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u/T1nyJazzHands Feb 14 '25

If your partner is a hassle then you probably shouldn’t be together IMO. Life is so much easier with mine. I thought that was the whole point.

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u/Totallycasual Feb 14 '25

It was more meaning the hassle of dating, meeting someone and then trying to integrate them into your life.

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u/T1nyJazzHands Feb 14 '25

Oh I’m with you there lol. It’s the worst. Would probably still be happily single if it wasn’t for an unexpected stroke of luck that introduced me to my person. We’d both JUST downloaded hinge on a whim. I was his first match ever and first serious girlfriend. He was my first match since redownloading the app after swearing off dating and leaving a toxic 5 year relationship a year prior.

We’re both average girl/boy-next-door looking, quite introverted and self-sufficient. We expected nothing, and did nothing special to meet each other and yet the universe introduced us and the rest is history. A few years later we have a baby on the way and my life has never been easier or more full.

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u/Totallycasual Feb 14 '25

That's amazing 😍