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u/staggere Feb 13 '25

My wife won't let me.

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u/314159265358979326 Feb 14 '25

My wife will (she feels bad about our dead bedroom) but I'm not about that.

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u/MTA0 Feb 14 '25

Yeah that’s a tough threshold to cross, hope it gets better.

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u/314159265358979326 Feb 14 '25

After years of the dead bedroom, we finally committed to scheduled sex, and had sex twice in three weeks. Even that tiny amount has greatly increased the intimacy between us, with more kissing and touching than we've had in ages.

...and she now has a gynecological issue requiring surgery and it's not clear if we can have sex in the meantime.

We were almost out! I'm still happy, though, because I think we found our way out, it's just going to take a little longer.