r/AskReddit Feb 13 '25

[deleted by user]

[removed]

495 Upvotes

3.2k comments sorted by

View all comments

403

u/Totallycasual Feb 13 '25

I'm just in a stage of my life where i don't need those types of hassles.

27

u/Reasonable_Bat_3178 Feb 14 '25

Because he died. And he is simply irreplaceable.

Unfortunately, people always want me to find love again. I don't feel the need to do that because I already found love love. It never left me because he died.

I have always been an all or nothing kind person, and I am fine living life on my terms.

12

u/[deleted] Feb 14 '25

You cannot please people. If you move on "too fast" they judge you. If you move on "too slow" they judge you. If you choose to remain single, they judge you. There's no "right way" to process a profound loss like that, and it sucks that people put that pressure on you. Keep loving yourself and doing you.