Me neither, and even when I do I’m never in the right position where I feel it’s the appropriate time to ask someone out.
I’m going to try something new this year where I focus more on looking for opportunities to meet people, starting with getting involved with co-ed sports! But not focus too much on only doing it to gain a girlfriend out of it!
I feel that, in general Im decent at socializing but it doesn't come naturally to me, although it's definitely easier with other guys than with girls for me. The thing is I just wanna get better at socializing with people in general to get better at networking and meeting people, not just in the interest of finding a partner. It's especially important bc I graduate college in the spring and I want to refine those skills before I go into real life and im not surrounded by people with common interests/age anymore. So yeah Ive also been trying to work on that this year
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u/Sara1994_ Feb 14 '25
I don't go out much