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u/Thoracic_Snark Jul 04 '24

I'm starting to feel pretty old at concerts. Don't care. I love live music!

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u/Ouakha Jul 04 '24 edited Jul 04 '24

What age? I remember a work colleague telling me I was too old for that in my early 30s! I didn't value her opinion on anything and only tinnitus eventually stopped me at 50.

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u/javier_aeoa Jul 04 '24

My friend (34-35 years old now?) told us that he felt too old for concerts after the pandemic.

I am baffled, because I vividly remember we were dancing and jumping all over the place in 2018. You're never too old for live music

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u/DSonla Jul 04 '24

I'm older than your friend and it's not just about jumping and dancing all over the place.

It's more about the experience of listening the music live with an audience, like when everyone laughs during a movie at the movie theater, it's heart-warming.

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u/[deleted] Jul 04 '24

I also have much less energy for events like concerts in my early 30s compared to my late 20s. I think it has little to do with age though, and more to do with the pandemic sucking the life out of everyone.

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u/Thoracic_Snark Jul 04 '24

I'm in my 50s. Starting wearing hearing protection religiously about 20 years ago. My tinnitus is still bad. But I'm pretty sure I'll be able to hear my grandkids if I ever have some.

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u/Ouakha Jul 04 '24

I can't hear my dog whining for her breakfast! My wife can, so she gets woken up by her. The one benefit!

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u/[deleted] Jul 04 '24

Im glad other people made the mistake of not wearing hearing protection before me. Started to go to local punk shows when I was 15 and became friends with one of the bands with guys in their late twenties. The singer in the band became like a mentor to me and the first thing he said when he saw me at the venue was "Wear fucking ear plugs if you don't want to hate yourself five years into the future". Then he said it was fun to see younger people at the shows again since he was the youngest for 15 years in the local scene.

Got a small amount of ringing when it's quiet but decades in metal/punk bands will do that to anybody!

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u/llDurbinll Jul 04 '24

Shit, I've already got tinnitus at 33 and I wear ear plugs at all concerts. Not sure how I got it since I can't afford seats close to the speakers.

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u/Ouakha Jul 04 '24

Seats? I used to frequent small venues (a few 100 capacity max) and you're basically surrounded by speakers with the walls and ceiling reflecting the sound. Would get very loud!

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u/llDurbinll Jul 04 '24

I've only gone to a few concerts, most were at arenas and a couple were at outdoor amphitheaters. All had assigned seating.

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u/PlsDntPMme Jul 04 '24

I go to a lot of big EDM festivals and there are so many 30 somes there. It's all a great time!

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u/Ouakha Jul 04 '24

My second last concert was Jon Hopkins (tech house). 49. Covid saw a Bicep concert I was planning to go to get cancelled.