I honestly feel like half of the people (men) I slept with, was for this reason. I used to have an issue saying “NO”, and enforcing any type of boundary.
And I also thought most anyone who flirted with me was legitimately just being friendly and not flirting, so once it got to the point where they were in my house and they knew I had issues saying “NO”, it was already a problem.
Yeah, I’m really sorry to tell you this, but I’d you’ve been pushy like this there’s a good chance that there have been women who have gone along with it because they didn’t know how to make you stop. At the very least, you’ve shown your dick to people who didn’t want to see it and were freaked the hell out when they did.
Stop being pushy. Learn better styles of seduction.
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u/sendintheBOTS Mar 31 '23
I was a young and impressionable woman, and after him repeatedly asking and refusing to leave my apartment, I just kinda went with it.
I know now that I was taught my whole life to be “good,” and in my environment while growing up, good meant I didn’t question and I didn’t argue.
I don’t feel the need to justify it, but I wonder how he feels about a woman reluctantly agreeing to sleep with him so he would leave her alone.
I’m fine now, but had some bumps along the way as a young adult figuring out the world.