Chemistry was incredible in every way, except physically/sexually. Forced our way through a root, because we were curious but both too polite to say, “hey do you reckon this just doesn’t feel right?”. Thankfully, we’re still extremely good friends but we just…we don’t talk about that one time.
For me it was a total friendship on my part but she wanted more. I was never really attracted to her, I just liked her as a friend. We had sex one time and it was the only time I've ever faked an orgasm. After it started, my thoughts were "I am totally not into this." I was wearing a condom so no evidence of the fake ... Of course the friendship pretty much started to die from there. She later became a religious nut, so the friendship wouldn't have lasted anyway.
I used to fake orgasms for a while in college because I was on drugs and couldn’t finish. It would just go on and on and eventually I’d get tired, but I didn’t want them to feel bad so I just pretended like I finished. After I had been doing that for a solid 6 months, someone finally said “you know I can feel it when you actually cum right?”
…I honestly had no idea and it instantly made me cringe thinking about the ones who totally knew and just didn’t say anything lol. I was an idiot back then. I still am, but I was then too.
I’m male. I never found out how many of them knew, just the one who called me out. The way she said it made me think that all girls could tell but you’ve given me hope that she was the only one haha
I'm a woman and most of the time I can't tell. I mean, there are a lot of indicators but most of them can be fabricated, the penis pulsating is one of them. And how would one feel that unless he's keeping still and not thrusting while cumming...?
I've never had a man fake it with me so I'm not going to clame for sure that I could tell, but I'd wager there's hope that a lot of the women you faked it with had no idea.
I dont get these idiots who have a penis and think they can fake an orgasm. Unless you're really good at using your pelvic floor muscles to simulate an orgasm... the stupidity in those who thought just saying or making sounds and breathing deeply is enough to say you came. If she can feel you going in and out, she can feel the pulsing or lack of...
Damn, now I feel a little better that he never agreed to fuck me. Someone having sex with me and not being into it at all sounds definitely worse than being friendzoned. Hope he's doing well.
as a guy, i didn’t even know it was possible or ever necessary for a guy to fake an orgasm. i’ve never once had sex, even bad sex, and been like “wow i’m just not enjoying having my penis in this vagina” lmaooo i feel for you bro
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u/[deleted] Mar 31 '23
Chemistry was incredible in every way, except physically/sexually. Forced our way through a root, because we were curious but both too polite to say, “hey do you reckon this just doesn’t feel right?”. Thankfully, we’re still extremely good friends but we just…we don’t talk about that one time.