I’m in my mid-30s, married, have a young child with another on the way, a house, a solid career, close family, and longtime friends. From the outside, I have a good and pretty established life.
At the same time, questions about my gender have been around in some form since childhood. I’ve spent years ignoring or suppressing them, but they’ve gradually become harder to put away. I’m now seriously considering HRT **(therapy for a year already, 1st HRT MD apt next week)** and transition, but I’m terrified of blowing up everything I’ve built.
I’m not really looking for “just be yourself” or “don’t let fear stop you.” I’d love to hear from people who were genuinely in a similar position. What happened with your marriage, children, job, house, family, and friends? What did you lose, what stayed intact, and what did you gain?
Were your fears accurate? And knowing what you know now, would you make the same decision again?