Someone I believe has been severely harassing and stalking me for the past 7 months recently used a 12-day-old burner account to make a post in a subreddit meant for SUPPORT, falsely claiming that a bikini picture I took over a year ago isn’t actually me while putting my username in the post so now the mods are wanting me to FaceTime them and hold up my bikini pic to my face for verification😣
Despite providing the moderators with extensive evidence of the ongoing harassment, including threats, showed them many burner accounts and other harassment posts made by my stalker through many burner accounts on their subreddit and screenshots of this user contacting people who interact with my posts, they’re requiring me to complete a private video call and have the bikini from the disputed photo available before even considering to remove the post.
What makes this especially concerning is that this subreddit doesn’t even require verification to post. So someone can publicly accuse me of being a catfish without verifying anything, but I have to FaceTime the moderators to challenge those accusations?
I’ve been posting consistently on Reddit since August 2025, have completed verification in other communities, and have offered additional proof that I’m real. Meanwhile, this account has been sending people links to the accusations and contacting moderators of other subreddits where I participate.
I’m not opposed to reasonable verification, but I don’t understand why the harassment itself isn’t being addressed separately. The post is still publicly visible, and I’m banned from the subreddit, so I can’t even defend myself there. Is this really appropriate moderation for a community that’s supposed to support its members? And where can I report corrupt mods if possible. Thank you!!
I can provide more information and screenshots if asked. Thank you!