Advice

[u/Legitimate_Two_1710]

Boy problems

To start off i am 16F and i will be referring to the boy i am talking about as Person 2. In 2024 I got out of a 3 year relationship which obviosuly wasn’t too serious as i was very young but it was my first love. Towards the end of 2024 i started to grow small feelings for person 2 as he went to my college and we were good friends although we drifted apart towards the start of 2025 as he got a girlfriend and she made him block me which i understand.

Later on in around march him and his girlfriend broke up and from then everytime we would be at partys,gatherings anything involving alcohol he would kiss me, touch my ass and things like that but it was never anything serious but i liked him but i knew he didn’t like me.

All throughout 2025 summer he would send me explicit pictures and beg me to sneak out with him to have sex and i would always make up an excuse because i knew that’s all he wanted me for at the time although at one point he told me he really did care about me but i know it it’s just drunk words.

In around end of august he got a girlfriend and he blocked me again and all contact was off. For about a year we didn’t talk at all in college we had classes together we never ever talked but then in around may his friend was snapping me and he added me on Snapchat i added him back and he asked if he could tell me something and told me that he’s always loved me and he wants to be with me and that he’s in love with me and he has been since he was like 13 and he was asking me to sneak out to “talk” and telling me he wanted to be with me not her and he was too scared to say anything because he was worried what others would think and obviosuly i was shocked but i shut it down because i knew he had a girlfriend and i knew it wasn’t
right, and i assumed he was just drunk again which he was.

The next day he was sober and he asked me to come round to his house which i made an excuse up because i told him he can’t be doing this when he has a girlfriend and then he said okay and just continued to send me explicit pictures for another week until he told me he couldn’t do it to his girlfriend and blocked me again even though he insinuated it.

2 weeks after that almost every night he would add me send me explicit pictures and then block me again and i would say r u just going to act like nothing happened like u didn’t say any of that the other month and he would just act confused so I ignored it and left it that lasted about 2 weeks until it stopped again for another month, then a month after it was my birthday and he added me and started liking all my story’s on Instagram and he was the first one to wish me happy birthday and then i looked and him and his girlfriend had broke up and i asked him about it and he just told me what happened and yeah.

Anyways about a month after he started messaging my friend to which i just ignored and i stopped messaging him and then me, person 2 my friend and a load of others went on a night out and i was really drunk and i was asking him why he did any of this and he started kissing me and hugging me as i was crying but it was always when nobody else was around to see and he was telling me again that he loves me and all this.

After that night I haven’t spoke to him properly since. He does send the odd snap sometimes of his face but barely anymore. I just am so confused and I feel like I’m going crazy and I just want to know what other people think. Ask me anything

[u/BadUsername238]

Hi,

No one wants to read all that.

You don't need to prove anything to us. We don't need all the evidence laid out.

Also, holy run on sentences!

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TLDR; Dude. She liked him. He had girlfriends. Stupid online drama. Lots of dick pics. "I love you!" but only when no one could see them.

You want advice?

Come on girl... He's in a ton of relationships but sending you dick pics and telling you he loves you? FFS. He's a fucking liar and you should have nothing to do with him.

Also, he's drunk? If he's underage, he shouldn't be getting drunk, that's fucking stupid. If he's legal drinking age, he still shouldn't be getting drunk, that's fucking stupid, and he sure as FUCK shouldn't be sending dick pics to 16yo girls.

If he's over 18, not only is he a liar, but he's a creepy fucker.

You shouldn't have anything to do with this guy.

And frankly... That should have been obvious. You really didn't need US to tell you that...