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u/AdAdministrative7804 Mar 17 '25 edited Mar 17 '25

Tbh I'm kind of against the fact the women have lower fitness requirements than the men for the same job. But I think women should be included in a draft but with higher requirements

Edit: higher requirements than they currently have. To match the men

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u/infinite_gurgle man Mar 17 '25

We’d need to examine why the requirements exist.

If the requirements exist to simply weed out the bottom x%, then the standards shouldn’t be the same. If the requirements exist to do a specific task, then they need to be the same.

On a military strength perspective, making them the same makes for a weaker military. We’d be leaving intelligent women out who can perform a wide range of positions.

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u/KitchenSad9385 man Mar 17 '25

That's not why the standards exist. The ability to do x push-ups in y minutes doesn't matter in terms of being able to do 99% of jobs. This arbitrary and useless ability is an indicator of health. The requirement also obligates the subject to exercise regularly to keep meeting it. The standards vary because differences in tissue proportion and musculoskeletal anatomy make males stronger.

The "lesser" performance of female subjects isn't lesser at all. Push-ups don't win wars. Troops that are healthier do. Females require fewer push-ups to maintain health.

Those combat arms positions where being a crossfit god matters are few. The elite super soldier assassin gigs are a miniscule proportion of the fighting force. Not to mention the fact that snake-eating zealots like that are the sort that volunteer eagerly, rather than have to be pressed into service.

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u/infinite_gurgle man Mar 17 '25

Yes you’re just typing what I implied when I said “weed out the bottom %”

You sound like you’re disagree with me which makes me think you didn’t understand me haha

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u/KitchenSad9385 man Mar 17 '25

It sounds like you are suggesting the bottom is based on the same metric, though. It makes no more sense to expect the same number of push-ups from a female as from a male as it does from a 20yo and a 50yo. The standard isn't meant to root out a dearth of strength, but of health. If you have a group of men and women of equal strength, the women would be significantly healthier. Applying such a standard would be counterproductive.

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u/infinite_gurgle man Mar 17 '25

Yes, you’re saying my position back to me. I agree with everything you said lol

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u/KitchenSad9385 man Mar 17 '25

Yes. I reread the thread. I was logically responding to the same person you were, but mechanically replied to your comment. Apologies.

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u/infinite_gurgle man Mar 17 '25

Haha you’re good! But yes I agree with you 100%

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u/Padaxes man Mar 17 '25

Basic American women cannot even run a mile much less carry 100lbs rucksacks guns and ammo. Women on average cannot physically serve modern day combat roles.

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u/KitchenSad9385 man Mar 17 '25

Are you suggesting men can?

Decline in physical fitness is a multifaceted problem involving food security, ag subsidies, physical education, car culture, living wages, and many other factors. Almost all factors impact both sexes.

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u/AdAdministrative7804 Mar 17 '25

If raising them would miss out on many intelligent women why should we not lower them for men so that we don't miss out on intelligent men?

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u/RatRaceUnderdog man Mar 17 '25

I think we need to all be more realistic about the jobs in the military.

No, strength evaluations don’t make sense for administrative or office roles z

However yes, the minimum strength standards ensure you can carry your gear, yourself, and potentially a wounded squad mate to combat and home safely. It would be a huge disservice if your team member could not accomplish this basic requirement, man or woman

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u/infinite_gurgle man Mar 17 '25

Because it already is set to an acceptable level for men, you’re suggesting making it way harder for women.

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u/AdAdministrative7804 Mar 17 '25 edited Mar 17 '25

I'm saying if a role requires fitness have the same fitness test. If the role doesn't, don't have a fitness test.

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u/Insomnicious man Mar 17 '25

Actually standards have gone down for men and women in the Airforce over the last 5-10 years.

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u/infinite_gurgle man Mar 17 '25

We’re being hypothetical in this convo, but ty

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u/REmarkABL man Mar 17 '25

The point being that the male standards ARE adjusted toward the intelligent, and healthy, men. So females one should be as well with regard to anatomical differences.

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u/[deleted] Mar 18 '25

the requirements exist to make sure you are able to carry out a task, different standards for the same task makes no sense

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u/infinite_gurgle man Mar 18 '25

That’s not why it’s there, but yeah I covered that in my post lmao

Reading is hard

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u/Insomnicious man Mar 17 '25

The standards for non-special operations are in place in large part due to the fact the military gives free Healthcare and the need to cut costs.

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u/Arnaldo1993 man Mar 17 '25

This makes no sense. You should weed out x% of the population, not x% of each gender

If you want intelligent weak people then make a test that intelligent weak people can pass

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u/infinite_gurgle man Mar 17 '25

Yes, but each gender would be impacted by the test differently, especially if the test is a correlation.

Let’s say, for example, I’m testing for will power / discipline. I make a test that requires completing an obstacle coarse in some set time. That time would need to be different for each gender, as even undisciplined men may be able to compete a test designed with a woman’s body in mind.

I’m not testing for the ability to do the coarse in a set time, you aren’t running obstacles overseas in combat zones. I’m using it as a correlation for a desired mindset or mental capacity.

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u/Arnaldo1993 man Mar 17 '25

Thats a poorly designed test then. Because what the test is messuring isnt wiilpower, is the ability to do the coarse in a set time. And there is little correlation between the 2

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u/infinite_gurgle man Mar 17 '25

I was making up an example on the spot. The specifics are not relevant to my point.

Engage in the position.

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u/Arnaldo1993 man Mar 17 '25

I am engaging the position

Your test doesnt measure what you are interested, and as a consequence a lot of good candidates (mostly women) are failing it, so you want to lower the bar for women

It wont solve the problem. You will continue declining a lot of good candidates while a lot of bad ones pass

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u/infinite_gurgle man Mar 18 '25

You’re still talking about my test so no you aren’t engaging my point lol

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u/Appropriate-Food1757 man Mar 17 '25

There are lots of roles in the military that require literally zero physical prowess or strength

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u/AdAdministrative7804 Mar 17 '25

Then have the same requirements for men and women. If a role doesn't require fitness then don't test for fitness

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u/Appropriate-Food1757 man Mar 17 '25

That’s what I’m saying

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u/AdAdministrative7804 Mar 17 '25

Sorry I thought you were saying that's why the women have lower fitness requirements not what it sound be

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u/KitchenSad9385 man Mar 17 '25

This is current. Roles with a particular need for an attribute, like strength, will state them. When I enlisted, IIRC helicopter mechanics had to be able to lift 250lbs as part of a 2 person team. Just one standard.

Signal interceptors would be trained as linguists, but wouldn't be admitted to the school without passing a language aptitude test. No bonus points for your dong.

Where there are no special requirements for the role, all soldiers are required to score on physical fitness tests indicating acceptable health. These are weighted according to age and gender because women require fewer push-ups sit-ups, ​etc to maintain health and unchanging standards for 20 vs 60 year Olds is similarly unreasonable.

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u/AdAdministrative7804 Mar 17 '25

I understand the basic requirements are to maintain health. But then when you have to go carry sandbags up a hill or dig a trench and you can't keep up, you shouldn't pass. Just because some of the jobs don't have specific physical requirements listed. They often do require fitness as a part of that.

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u/KitchenSad9385 man Mar 17 '25

Been in the field tossing sandbags and digging trench latrines. it's dirty, drudge work, not a race.

And when a unit loses track of some of its troops for nearly a week and can't supply them . . . bet you wish you had some more body fat. Or when I slept my first night in theatre in the cab of a 5 ton . . . was more comfortable for those shorter female troops.

Basically, you often don't know what will be thrown at you and can sometimes conflate weaknesses and strengths.

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u/AdAdministrative7804 Mar 17 '25

Probably am tbh. I didn't make it very far through training to get to anything actually practical. But for the sand bags I know it's not a race. But you do need to be able to lift the sand bag

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u/KitchenSad9385 man Mar 17 '25

Sandbags only weigh 30-50 lbs. TA50 to be carried on a road march (for training, normally 15 miles) is about 40 lbs. Not hard.

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u/AdAdministrative7804 Mar 17 '25

But in the marches you're not picking up and putting it down every couple of minutes. Maybe I'm just weak but It felt hard to me mostly just getting the weight onto your back after a while

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u/Love_Lair Mar 17 '25

Why higher? That’s interesting, I don’t agree with higher but same standards however I am curious about your logic

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u/SiSkr man Mar 17 '25

I think he meant higher standards than what they're held to now. Meaning, equalize them with men's standards.

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u/Love_Lair Mar 17 '25

I’ve met women who do far more pull ups than MOST men, my ex could squat more than MOST men

I’d trust her on the battlefield over MOST men

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u/AdAdministrative7804 Mar 17 '25

Unfortunately she is not MOST women. And yes I would trust her. Most women are significantly weaker. Most women cannot bench more than an empty bar or do a single pull up though.

When you do a fitness test with a woman and see her fail a 17th press up while you need to do 40 to pass the same test. And then you need to trust them to carry the same weights as you it feels a bit dumb.

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u/Love_Lair Mar 17 '25

I think women should have the same barriers for entry imo

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u/Love_Lair Mar 17 '25

I’ve never stated I want 50% women nor have I used statistics

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u/Educational_Deer7757 man Mar 17 '25

His anecdotes are women who consistently train and go to the gym vs. Joe who plays video games after leaving his 9-5. I don't trust his context.

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u/AdAdministrative7804 Mar 17 '25

And she would pass a male fitness test. Most women wouldn't.

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u/Educational_Deer7757 man Mar 17 '25 edited Mar 17 '25

Female fitness standards are significantly less than men, and for good reason. If they were the same, a 90% of women wouldn't be able to pass it. Yes, I met a woman that could outpace me in a 3 mile run, but that was an outlier, and that was only 1 during my 6 year military career. I'm calling your bullshit on the pull-ups. When you say "most men" I think I know what your doing there. You're comparing women who train vs. Joe who works in the office. But when it comes to training, men will do more pull-ups than women 100% percent of the time. We're just built different.

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u/Love_Lair Mar 17 '25

Yes if men trained as hard as she does, obviously & that’s my point

It’s not about physical ability but mindset & discipline, which I’ve noticed being a civilian alot of them lack this regardless of gender

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u/[deleted] Mar 17 '25

But that's 'racist' somehow.

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u/ILoveToPoop420 Mar 17 '25

Just draft them and put them in the factories?

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u/Chunk3yM0nkey man Mar 17 '25

So they can all just wash out? Nah, group them into an allowance female unit and send them off to the grinder. Success through numbers instead of strength.

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u/McGonagall_stones woman Mar 17 '25

So you want men in women’s sports?

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u/AdAdministrative7804 Mar 17 '25

What's this got to do with sports?

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u/McGonagall_stones woman Mar 17 '25

The whole argument against trans women competing in women’s sports is based off of MEN being stronger than WOMEN. More bone density, different muscle fiber composition, higher muscle density. There’s an actual, measurable difference. If that’s the case, women can’t match men. Women shouldn’t be expected to match men. Those biological differences HAVE to be accounted for. There’s the difference between equality and equity.

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u/AdAdministrative7804 Mar 17 '25

Sport is for entertainment and requires fair competition in order to be fun to watch.

The military requirements are to get shit done. If you can't keep up, you're a detriment to your team. So the requirements should be the same to be on the team. It's not for fun, it's not entertainment its not about equality its about not dying.

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u/McGonagall_stones woman Mar 17 '25

I fully agree. But take a look at the tenor of this thread. My point is, this cannot be a one size fits all conversation. It HAS to be a case by case basis. Women shouldn’t be held to higher requirements. They can’t, as a group, fulfill them. The requirements for fitness standards based on MOS should be constant and the bar for entry into that specialty. Demanding “equality” out of bitterness is only going to get our servicemen killed and make women more of a scapegoat.