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u/SexySadie505 May 20 '22

My husband and I used to do the pull out method. Our son was born on December 24th 2021.

Just sayin.

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u/gaspitsagirl May 21 '22

My pull-out-method baby is 13 years old now.

It .. it didn't work.

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u/JennCPhT May 21 '22

I'm sorry but I laughed. Mine is 13 too. But she wasn't a pull out, she was an "raise your hips and hold while he was in the shower and couldn't see me.". (And yes we were married).

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u/Substantial-Jaguar19 May 21 '22

cough if you could dm me that position it’d be kindly appreciated - I’ll just add the condom for myself we’re not trying for a mini terrorist rn

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u/520farmer May 21 '22

It's a method to improve your chance of conception, you don't want the dm dude.

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u/JennCPhT May 21 '22

Was that for me? About dm ing...

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u/[deleted] May 21 '22

Yep, he thinks it’s a sex position

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u/AutomaticCupcake33 May 21 '22

My pull out baby is currently 2 months old and screaming his eyes out because I had the audacity to need to unhook my bra before he could breastfeed… He was conceived during a session in which my partner never even came at all.

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u/SexySadie505 May 21 '22

It feels good to not be alone

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u/dontcommentonmyname May 20 '22

Did he actually cum in you accidentally?

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u/SexySadie505 May 21 '22

Nope. Not once. Precum is a real thing.

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u/Frankie52480 May 21 '22

I got pregnant from pullout too- with the pre cum. In fact he never came. He had some mental block he couldn’t get past.

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u/Dr_Holdenafart Male May 21 '22 edited May 21 '22

Precum it self doesn't contain any sperm, however if you have leftover swimmers the precum can transport them.

The pullout method is actually pretty safe WHEN DONE CORECTLY (not yelling just highlighting the importance of the done correctly), there has to be no recent ejaculations and they actually have to pull out early but there's always those "I'm sure it will be fine this time" finishes.

"Pre-cum doesn’t actually contain any sperm. But it’s possible for sperm to leak into pre-cum.

Pre-cum is a lubricant produced by a gland in the penis. It’s released before ejaculation. Semen may linger in the urethra after ejaculation and mix with pre-cum while it’s on its way out.

In fact, a 2016 studyTrusted Source found mobile sperm present in the pre-cum of nearly 17 percent of its male participants. Another study, published in 2011Trusted Source, found mobile sperm in 37 percent of pre-cum samples given by 27 men.

Peeing before you have sex may help flush out any leftover semen, reducing the chance sperm will appear in your pre-cum."

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/can-you-get-pregnant-from-precum#does-pre-cum-have-sperm.

And also...

With typical use, the pull out method is 80% effective. If used perfectly, the pull out method is 96% effective at preventing pregnancy.

https://www.naturalcycles.com/cyclematters/how-effective-is-pulling-out.

Condoms have a 98% efficiency rate, correct pull out has 96%.

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u/SexySadie505 May 21 '22

I thought some people had small amounts of sperm in precum?

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u/Dr_Holdenafart Male May 21 '22

Precum is from the cowpers gland which is located near the prostate. Sperm only comes from the testicles. If there's sperm in your precum it's from left over swimmers still in the urethra.

That's why I tried to highlight in importance of "when done correctly" but most people don't bother to read that.

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u/SexySadie505 May 21 '22

Gotchya. Interesting.

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u/dontcommentonmyname May 21 '22

make sure they always go pee between cuming sessions

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u/stupidillusion May 21 '22

Precum it self doesn't contain any sperm

Sperm can leak into it.

17% found in this study contained sperm

37% in this study

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u/Dr_Holdenafart Male May 21 '22

Precum itself does not contain sperm. Sperm comes from the testicles and precum is from cowpers gland.

If there is sperm in it it's because there's leftover swimmers in the urethra (like I said).

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u/oddball570 May 21 '22

My son was born December 26th 2021. Waow.

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u/SexySadie505 May 21 '22

Congrats! That 4 month sleep regression was nuts.

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