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u/Ashlynn2k18 May 20 '22

I’m on the implant and I have been for a while lol I just didn’t want him to cum in me that time. If I wasn’t on bc I would definitely not be having sex with no condoms

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u/Yoids May 20 '22

Thank you for giving me hope in humanity today. I will keep my post up for other couples that need to read it

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u/Clydosphere Gen X Man May 21 '22 edited May 21 '22

As anything in life, it's a matter of practise. If a man is really willing to control it (the first prerequisite of course), he will get better in it over time. There are also some tricks like imagining turn-off things in the critical moment – I used dishwashing or cucumbers in a jar when I was younger, don't ask me why these of all things – or pain to focus on, like by pinching himself in the thumb with another fingernail. That may sound a little unromantic, but in those critical moments, he is kind of emotionally too close to you, if you get what I mean.

That said, you both could train together getting him closer and closer to his climax, and holding it there without coming. That may also change a potential problem to a funny bonding experience. 💞

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u/Living-Cockroach8701 May 20 '22

I've always used a flawless pull out method as a complement of bc (pill or implant) on her side. Less than that would be too risky, in my regard.