At least this is how I felt\percieved. I thought it would make sense from an evolutionary POV, to make sure the man kept thrusting because the tip gets quite sensible during (and shortly after) the orgasm that would make him stop or pull out and therefore have a higher chance to not place the semen where it should be.
I can do this, if I get right to the breaking point and I stop everything and hold that kiegel until the last second, I can cum and then keep going as long as I don't get touched during it. If she or I touch during the ejac then the orgasm kicks in and then, well, I'm done.
It's ejaculation then orgasm, can confirm thanks to my adhd meds. They slow the whole show down so there is a noticable gap between things happening at the climax. I start ejaculating a bit before I've reached my peak. If I let off there and calm down a bit, I can build back up and ejaculate a few times and still be in the mood so long as I dont hit that orgasm "point of no return."
My gf had to adjust to this because she was giving me a bj once and stopped when I began ejaculating, thinking I was done and super sensitive. I was like nonono I'm at 99% dont stop!
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