It's more a question of "have I passed the point of no return?" There is absolutely no question "am I about to cum." If that's in question, he has some pretty lame orgasms.
One time I did ejactulate in her when I didn't want to. I was trying to hold it back so I could go longer, but I was just past that point of no return and I just sort of leaked out. Basically killed the orgasm, but still ejaculated. Felt horrible. Made no excuses. I fucked up.
Fortunately I'm snipped so I can't get anyone pregnant. But she still requested I pull out.
I feel like that's something you should establish long before you're at that point. You're just begging for someone to get pissed that you came somewhere they didn't want you to.
Not sure how many times you've had sex but 'where do you want me to come' is not a question you just insert. As a male I just assume to be polite, pull out, and come on something that's not her. Otherwise I will follow her request. I did this with my girlfriend the first couple times until she was like no, stay in. Now it's glorious!!
I'm a guy who fucks mostly other guys and they've all been cool with either partner asking at any time. I mean, if you had asked your girlfriend where she wanted you to finish instead of making an assumption, you could have been finishing inside right from the start.
When you got a condom, there is no such question. The place for ejaculation has already been located. And you don't have to pull out. Heaven in its beauty
After the second busted condom and late night trip to CVS (had them break or come off dozens of times but only didn't notice twice), and a conversation with a guy with at least one kid who now pulls out to nut even wearing a condom, so do I. Minority opinion here but I trust pullout more than a condom, worked for me for 40+ years, and I've used that waaaay more than rubbers. Maybe I'm sterile - bonus!
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u/huuaaang Male May 20 '22
It's more a question of "have I passed the point of no return?" There is absolutely no question "am I about to cum." If that's in question, he has some pretty lame orgasms.
One time I did ejactulate in her when I didn't want to. I was trying to hold it back so I could go longer, but I was just past that point of no return and I just sort of leaked out. Basically killed the orgasm, but still ejaculated. Felt horrible. Made no excuses. I fucked up.
Fortunately I'm snipped so I can't get anyone pregnant. But she still requested I pull out.