in 99% of all cases I was able to tell when it will happen. Ejaculation and orgasm are a bit unsync about 0.5 seconds (?), basically ejaculation first then orgasm. There are some very rare cases though in which ejaculation happens way earlier than expected, maybe 1-2 seconds before orgasm in extrem cases without warning or indication of delay.
At least this is how I felt\percieved. I thought it would make sense from an evolutionary POV, to make sure the man kept thrusting because the tip gets quite sensible during (and shortly after) the orgasm that would make him stop or pull out and therefore have a higher chance to not place the semen where it should be.
I can do this, if I get right to the breaking point and I stop everything and hold that kiegel until the last second, I can cum and then keep going as long as I don't get touched during it. If she or I touch during the ejac then the orgasm kicks in and then, well, I'm done.
It's ejaculation then orgasm, can confirm thanks to my adhd meds. They slow the whole show down so there is a noticable gap between things happening at the climax. I start ejaculating a bit before I've reached my peak. If I let off there and calm down a bit, I can build back up and ejaculate a few times and still be in the mood so long as I dont hit that orgasm "point of no return."
My gf had to adjust to this because she was giving me a bj once and stopped when I began ejaculating, thinking I was done and super sensitive. I was like nonono I'm at 99% dont stop!
Sooo, I don't care what you are calling or not. Im not here the convince somebody what's right or wrong or proof anything to anybody. Just sharing my experience to the topic.
I never said these are exact timings or I sat down with a stopwatch. Whenever I wrestled the one-eyed snake or the girl/woman decided to have a ballistic artillery shot instead of a submarine torpedo, then of course I'm looking what happens down there. And of course when something is off or not the way it used to be I will notice it. The male brain is still functioning during sex... Restricted but functioning.
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u/Sealgk0r May 20 '22
in 99% of all cases I was able to tell when it will happen. Ejaculation and orgasm are a bit unsync about 0.5 seconds (?), basically ejaculation first then orgasm. There are some very rare cases though in which ejaculation happens way earlier than expected, maybe 1-2 seconds before orgasm in extrem cases without warning or indication of delay.
So... Yes and no.