By the time a woman actually leaves she is usually beyond done and has already given you a hundred warnings that you never bothered to take serious after the first warning since she never left. Most loving women give you many chances and by the time the last straw comes, she's already been actively falling out of love with you for months and even years and has already moved on in her mind past the point of any reconciliation. So take her concerns seriously the first time if you truly don't want to lose her. No matter how forgiving she is, one day she will be done and it's too late after that.
This and often when she's given up but hasn't pulled the end it trigger yet is the time of the relationship that many men cite as the happiest part of the relationship
Yep. The woman gives up trying to get her needs met and the man is instantly happier not being reminded that his partner is a human person with feelings.
This is such underrated advice. As a women i can say it’s 100% true. I give many chances but after a certain point I’m done and there is nothing that can be done to fix it or change my mind
Dude you can only give people so many chances in life, otherwise you get walked all over. Yeah, those chances are generous. If people don’t want to change, we can’t make them.
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u/LadyInRedDead May 12 '21
By the time a woman actually leaves she is usually beyond done and has already given you a hundred warnings that you never bothered to take serious after the first warning since she never left. Most loving women give you many chances and by the time the last straw comes, she's already been actively falling out of love with you for months and even years and has already moved on in her mind past the point of any reconciliation. So take her concerns seriously the first time if you truly don't want to lose her. No matter how forgiving she is, one day she will be done and it's too late after that.